tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8938012721320777020.post8617095989264212933..comments2024-02-05T04:14:07.116-08:00Comments on IVF Land on Surrogacy World: Fertility is a Privilege...IVF Land on Surrogacy Worldhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16327321729157124317noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8938012721320777020.post-81724404336598403002010-10-15T02:15:52.826-07:002010-10-15T02:15:52.826-07:00We are 7 weeks post birth and I am still standing....We are 7 weeks post birth and I am still standing. So far, So good.IVF Land on Surrogacy Worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16327321729157124317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8938012721320777020.post-9062886686113970112010-10-11T13:43:02.121-07:002010-10-11T13:43:02.121-07:00I don't blame you at all for wanting to be wit...I don't blame you at all for wanting to be with her ALL of the time.<br />I did not have issues conceiving, but my child was a choice and I did not choose to have her so that someone else could care for her. It was hard enough for me to share her with her dad, there was no way someone else was going to take care of her for me.<br />Even as they got bigger we never left either kid with someone else unless the kids wanted it. As a couple we found plenty of ways to stay connected without having to ship our kids off to someone else. We've never thought of our kids as a hinderance. We chose to have them and we will spend at least 18 years revolving our lives around them.<br />I know that there are MANY people who do need time away to help them be the best parent they can be, I just wasn't one of them. They are not worse parents for it, they just aren't me.<br />You guys waited a very long time for her. Enjoy her any way you want and don't let anyone make you feel like you have to give her up.<br />I think the key is not making people feel as though you don't trust them. It's more about you WANT to be there!Cynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11484266497636150659noreply@blogger.com