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Calling All Surrogates.....

Now comes the big question: Is two better then one? OR Is one a star? We have struggled with IVF and carried around this extra weight on our shoulder's to finally WIN at the reproductive game. The weight has been lifted and we are riding high. So high that I don't even need to blog anymore. It seems like an anxiety driven activity. And when the anxiety is gone - I am just a really boring writer. Without a compelling story to share. So - our big struggle now is - Do we stop at one or double down and go for two? Our eggs are expired so we need to choose soon - like yesterday. And It's much easier to travel and do the IVF procedures before we have our child in hand. The debate settles on two simple main points. We can save much money by not doing it again. The money can go towards the financial security of the only child. And I am a guy - so when you mention baby the first thought is always $$$$$$$. VS. If we only have one child - Does she hav