Changed Expectations......Top Ten List

The investigation continues.........

Here are the very important results of my internal investigation about the state of our pregnancy. We have not seen a Dr. in the last 72 hours so this is not based on any new information from a licensed and trained medical expert.


Our reported numbers, the percentages, the heart beat, the bleed, the through the roof extremely High Beta numbers, Dr. Google, the fact that I have never carried a baby, and my complete lack of any medical training.

With that being said - we have the all important discovery, findings, and my current made up beliefs.

  • Due to the high beta number we started out as twins.
  • Morning Sickness which didn't happen in the past with singleton's was in full strength due to the twins.
  • The bleed was one guy moving out, not a tear in the lining.
  • The Heart Beat numbers are within range and will be fine.
  • With one baby the morning sickness will go away.
  • I can be a nice guy again. No more "Bad Man".
  • The baby will be safe or safer at least now that it is a singleton.
  • The Heart Beat will rise accordingly and be stronger, due to no longer needing to share resources.
  • We are now more likely to have a full term healthy baby.

And the number one new expectation is my favorite.
  • We can expect to kiss the NICU room goodby!!!!


Cyn said...

With my lack of medical training, that would be my thoughts as well.
Glad to see you've found a new perspective and at least for today, are feeling a little more stable.

No NICU sounds like a great idea!

IVF Land on Surrogacy World said...

I am not worried about my stability - it is what it is.

I mean c'mon now, I am an IP, I am perfect, except for this fertility issue of course.

Which I have strictly through association and it isn't contagious.

So we must go full circle back to the statement:

C'mon now, I am perfect.

Christy said...

Jon, Do you need to be slapped?? :P

IVF Land on Surrogacy World said...

Shouldn't you be posting somewhere else?

Why don't you do something more valuable with your time?

I got it:

Go over to SMO and get us some expert medical advice.

Cyn said...

You don't even need to go to SMO for that silly. My sister calls me all the time for expert medical advice. Christy has my number, I'll gladly share my medical experience.

smm said...

I concur with your hypothesis! :) BTW ~ I am now forced to stalk you because a certain IM doesn't want to talk about it!!! :P

Christy said...


No thank you, I prefer Dr. W

IVF Land on Surrogacy World said...


It's amazing how life changes. I used to always be stalked simply for being me.

Not for my valuable information.

IVF Land on Surrogacy World said...


You can't claim to opposite's and remain credible.

On this page alone you claim to have no medical training and then you want to offer expert medical advice.

I just don't know what to believe anymore.

IVF Land on Surrogacy World said...


My life is changing.

Dr. W.
Double agents with no medical training - then medical experts.
Stalkers looking for my information.

It's not my surrogate that needs a new name it's me.

You can call me Bond. James Bond.