We are a US couple that used a surrogate to become parents. These our the thoughts and experiences written by the new Father. We have just started another Surrogacy Adventure and will be sharing our story. Jon@SurrogacyTogether.com.
Paco is Mighty.....
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Short answer for now. I didn't want to keep everyone in suspense.
Baby doing very well passed the challenge with flying colors.
Since we are talking about other blogs that inspire a post I will point to Xbox4NappyRash: The seventh sense in which he talks about developing a 7th sense - the ability to see infertile people. I got it a little different - I See Pregnant Women....And Small Children. When I was a small child I would go to the beach and see other small children. Others like me to play with in the sand. Then as I got a little bit older I became interested in the basketball court near the beach and was aware of the other basketball players that where on the court. As a got still older, I became aware of the girls in the bikini's at the beach. All of a sudden they were everywhere - and they were the only ones on the beach. Recently, when I go to the beach I see Pregnant Women....And Small Children all over the place. I constantly have to work hard not to step on them as they play in the surf. These young families are new to the beach. They have never been there before now - yet now they are all of the...
When the Intended parent and Surrogate get involved in the process they normally hear two entirely different comments from friends, family, and strangers. The Surrogates hear: Your going to build a family for someone. Your going to give the gift of life. You are so special for doing that for someone. And you get paid - what a bonus. The Intended Parents hear: Isn't that expensive? How are you coming up with the money? It seems so unnatural does it really work? Do you really need more children? Why don't you adopt? What is so important about your DNA? Is she going to keep the baby? The baby is not really yours. Aren't you playing God? Some people just aren't supposed to have children. Aren't you worried about the surrogate doing drugs? Aren't you just using some poor women? Aren't you being selfish? Maybe, you should just get a puppy. That will cure everything. I am sure that I have missed a bunch. Please add your thoughts in the comment section.
Mr. Excited has arrived on the scene. He is the happy go lucky guy that is ready to take on any new adventure. He doesn't see how anything can go wrong and wants to "damn the torpedoes, go full speed ahead." We know the odds now, (way to well) so how do we use them to our advantage? Let's double our odds by doubling our surrogates. The math seems really simple. Sure having all of the people involved can make things complicated, but Mr. Excited just wants to hear about the results - not the complications. We have One goal. One Mission. AND One Obsession . So with our eyes firmly on the prize we are moving forward with a new Adventure of a Lifetime . We have built a new team to join us and are ready and excited about moving forward again. We have named our surrogates Ajysyt and Isis. To give them their privacy on the web. Also, it just seemed like a lot of fun to keep people guessing. Our goal is to share this story with everyone. To accomplish this we have started ...
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