Don't tell us it will be fine.

Christy will beat you.

Nothing is guaranteed in pregnancy.

At least we are mentally prepared if that's possible.

You see ........... Hell has arrived.... And we are one with the wolf.

We have a bleed..... a small one........ But, still a bleed.

An ultrasound has been done.

There is one baby....

The bleed is not near him. And small.

He measures on pace at 6 weeks, 6 days.

At 124 his heart beat is in range, but low.

Our surrogate is on bed rest.

Yes, we know...... You bled like a firehose for weeks and everything was fine for you.

Well - we have our own story. And it didn't have a happy ending.

So don't tell us it will be fine. You don't know that.

Right now, for us -

The proper response is Crepi il lupo

"May the wolf die"


Cyn said...

Oh guys! There's no way I will tell you it will be fine, but I will hope with every fiber of my being that everything will be fine.
The good news is you had an ultrasound. There is a baby, growing on target. You have a surro willing to go on bed rest. You have a dr taking a look and advising. Bleeding with IVF IS common. You have a new story, a new situation and with any luck, an entirely different outcome.

Thank you for sharing, as I'm sure it's not what you would like to be sharing.

RebekahRose said...

How about WE LOVE YOU and are praying for you and the baby bean!! HUGS!!

IVF Land on Surrogacy World said...


We do have a lot of pluses on our side.

We can't tell the whole story if we only share the good parts.

IVF Land on Surrogacy World said...


That is the exact words that will help at this moment.


Christine said...

I love you guys and your baby bean. Hugs to all of you.

Gina said...

My heart is with you as always.

Rhonda and Gerry W said...

Will be praying and hoping all goes well. Stay strong.

Hugs and love your way.