Mr. Vulnerable is an idiot and doesn't get to stay around long. Sure he gets a short visit occasionally, but he gets a quick kick in the butt and told to leave.
After 3 transfers and no live birth he made an unannounced visit and stayed past his welcome.
He asked all kids of questions about where the problems where in our relationships with IVF and surrogacy. You know - who's fault is it. That's what Mr. Vulnerable likes to do best, he likes to point fingers and place blame.
Mr. Vulnerable is an idiot - he doesn't have any good qualities.
He does talk a good game though at times and he reels you in and grabs you. Tells you that you need to go over everything and find out where you went wrong.
So - we look at all of the facts and realize - scientifically speaking - we didn't do anything wrong. Even our Doctor warns you going in that this is a roller coaster ride and you need to be mentally prepared.
I really think it's more like Mr. Toads wild ride then a roller coaster.
Either way, we are on the ride, let's keep moving.
Mr. Vulnerable is an idiot, he is shown his way out the door - Now meet - Mr. Oddsmaker.