The land mines are all over the place and anything you say can hurt someone's feelings.
Speaking to a women is Dangerous to begin with no matter the subject. And think of the fun topics we get to discuss.
A women's weight, age, and medical history. OH MY!
This is the normal conversation (normally taboo) and as an IF I am supposed to know what is off limits. We have already crossed all of the limits and that is just about the surrogate.
Then we get to start to talk about IVF. That has to be a safer topic right?
No! It's filled with thoughts about religion, politics, money, and sex.
To not speak is safe. You can't upset anyone by keeping your mouth shut.